I created this blog earlier this year at a low point in my life. I’d given up believing my son would survive his addiction. I did not expect him to live much longer. I had lost hope.
When you lose hope, you lose everything.
But in reaching out to others, I found the support I needed to regain that lost hope. I found others struggling just as hard as I was–those who struggled with loved ones still deep in addiction, those whose loved ones had struggled and survived, and those whose loved ones had struggled and lost.
Many I found here, readers of my blog who left comments and messages of support and understanding, who shared their stories, and their loved ones’ stories. They gave me the strength and encouragement I needed to keep fighting and keep hoping.
Many were recovering and recovered addicts, and they were especially dear to me because I heard my son’s voice in their stories, their struggles, and their triumphs.
Many I found in the movement called “The Addict’s Mom” (TAM), an organization whose members are the mothers of addicts who, like me, are struggling with the terror of addiction and how it tears families apart. I feel such a kinship with these women. They are my sisters-in-arms.
September is National Recovery Month, And TAM is launching a “Lights of Hope” Campaign. They ask everyone on September 1 to light three candles:
- One for an addict currently using
- One for an addict in recovery
- One for an addict who is gone but forever loved and remembered
I hope you will join me in lighting these candles of hope. For all the moms and their loved ones.
Thank you.
To learn more about TAM and other events planned in September, visit their website at http://addictsmom.com/
I had never heard about TAM. Thank you for sharing this.
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They are a great group, fighting for a great cause.
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Thank you for sharing and for all you do.
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And to you as well.
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Thanks for the info. I shared your blog with my wife and she’s loves it and going to subscribe.
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Thanks for sharing, Vernon
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re-posted on Facebook and I am so glad you shared this my candle are from one who lost his battle. thank you !
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Thank you for reposting. I am so sorry for your loss. It must be so incredibly hard. I lit my three candles too, including one for your loved one.
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I have a candle for an addict currently using. Hope the candle makes a difference.
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I think it does make a difference. Hope is what helps and the candle symbolizes that. One of my candles was for yours as well.
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